Following a divorce, it is not unusual for a custodial parent to want to
relocate to a different county or even a different state. Understandably,
such a move can certainly affect a child’s relationships with friends,
extended family, classmates, and most importantly, with the non-custodial
parent. For that reason, New York courts carefully determine whether the
custodial parent has permission to relocate.
Since no two situations are identical, the family courts handle relocation
cases individually; courts do not take a cookie-cutter approach to relocations.
Regardless of the nuances or the facts of the case, the courts have one
objective: to act in the best interests of the child at all times (and
not necessarily what is best for the parent). While each parent’s
rights will be considered, the most weight will be given to the child’s
Relationships Change After Divorce
The courts recognize the fact that relationships inevitably change after
a divorce. For example, a parent may need to move out-of-state for a new
job or because of remarriage.
Given the circumstances, it may be impractical to maintain the status quo
when there has been a significant change in the custodial parent’s
life. In such cases, if the child will enjoy a better education, better
family support, and enhanced economic security by moving, a court may
rule that it is in the child’s best interests to relocate. These
interests must be weighed against the child’s need to maintain a
continued relationship with the non-custodial parent. Oftentimes, when
relocation is granted, the court will have to change the visitation schedule
so that the non-custodial parent will have more quality time with the child.
Suppose a child has strong ties to his non-custodial father, his father’s
family, his school, his friends, and the community. Though the child’s
custodial mother does not have a job lined up, she desires to move to
Pennsylvania to get a change of scenery and a fresh start, but the child
does not want to move away from his father, who is caring, compassionate,
and a good provider. In this situation, the court may decide that a change
in custody is arguably “in the best interests of the child,”
so that the child’s stability can be maintained.
If you are considering relocating, or you wish to contest such a move,
contact our Long Island family law attorneys!